{"id":243,"date":"2016-01-28T11:10:07","date_gmt":"2016-01-28T08:10:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/reiki-cluj-terapii.ro\/?p=243"},"modified":"2016-03-06T11:23:09","modified_gmt":"2016-03-06T08:23:09","slug":"karma-de-neam","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/reiki-cluj-terapii.ro\/?p=243","title":{"rendered":"Karma de neam"},"content":{"rendered":"

Karma de neam<\/h3>\n
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\"karma\"<\/a><\/b><\/p>\n<\/div>\n

\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0 S\u00e2ngele ap\u0103 nu se face: o zical\u0103 cu dus \u0219i \u00eentors. Cu o accep\u021bie pozitiv\u0103 \u2013 \u021bes\u0103tura solid\u0103 de sentimente \u0219i con\u0219tiin\u021b\u0103 care \u021bine la un loc membrii aceleia\u0219i familii \u2013 \u0219i o accep\u021bie \u201dfatalist\u0103\u201d \u2013 destinul trasat, genera\u021bii dup\u0103 genera\u021bii, \u00een virtutea karmei de neam. La cel de al doilea \u00een\u021beles se raporteaz\u0103 Georges Barbarin, \u00eentr-o lucrare antologic\u0103 \u2013 \u201dIisus, prietenul clipelor de grea \u00eencercare\u201d -, un instrument util pentru oricare dintre noi, pe drumul transform\u0103rii s\u00e2ngelui-karm\u0103 ap\u0103s\u0103toare \u00een aqua chiara (ap\u0103 pur\u0103).<\/b><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Dar cum identific\u0103m momentul c\u00e2nd trebuie s\u0103 lu\u0103m taurul de coarne \u0219i s\u0103 \u201drezolv\u0103m aceast\u0103 karm\u0103 de neam\u201d, vorba autorului? F\u0103c\u00e2nd lini\u0219te deplin\u0103 \u00een noi. Ca s\u0103 sim\u021bim, printr-un efort de obiectivare, de deta\u0219are, c\u0103 nu mai suntem propriii no\u0219tri st\u0103p\u00e2ni. Pur \u0219i simplu, nu ne mai manifest\u0103m NOI, ci se exprim\u0103 PRIN NOI, ca printr-o marionet\u0103 manevrat\u0103 din culise, schemele comportamentale mo\u0219tenite din genera\u021bie \u00een genera\u021bie. Concentr\u00e2ndu-ne, vom recunoa\u0219te unele din aceste scheme la p\u0103rin\u021bi, bunici \u0219i alte rude al\u0103turi de care am tr\u0103it suficient de mult, pentru a ne familiariza cu felul lor de a fi, de a ac\u021biona \u0219i a reac\u021biona. \u0218i pentru a recunoa\u0219te aceste tipare c\u00e2nd se manifest\u0103 \u00een noi \u00een\u0219ine, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 ne anun\u021be, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 ne cear\u0103 permisiunea. Preiau comanda \u0219i ne oblig\u0103 s\u0103 o execut\u0103m.<\/b><\/div>\n
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Nepl\u0103cut? Frustrant? Depersonalizant? Pu\u021bin spus! Pentru c\u0103 pot s\u0103 ne complice via\u021ba, sau s\u0103 o devieze, sau s\u0103 o fac\u0103 un calvar. Calvar asumat, \u00eentr-o m\u0103sur\u0103, prin contractul \u00eencheiat la nivel de suflete \u00eentre noi, to\u021bi membrii aceluia\u0219i neam, neam de neamul nostru. Dar asumarea a avut un scop clar: (re)venind AICI, s\u0103 r\u0103scump\u0103r\u0103m c\u00e2te ceva din erorile sau omisiunile care ne-au jalonat celelalte existen\u021be. Nu s\u0103 alunec\u0103m comod, dar contraproductiv, \u00een plasa acelora\u0219i sl\u0103biciuni \u201dfamiliale\u201d, ajut\u00e2nd la eternizarea calvarului.<\/b><\/div>\n
\u00cen concluzie: ne iubim neamul, dar p\u00e2n\u0103 aici! A\u0219a c\u0103 spunem, o dat\u0103 cu Georges Barbarin:<\/b><\/div>\n
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\u201dAceast\u0103 karm\u0103 de neam se\u00a0cere\u00a0 a fi rezolvat\u0103!\u201d<\/b><\/em><\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n
Eseistul francez recomand\u0103 calea bisericii:<\/b><\/div>\n
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\u201dLiturghiile\u00a0pentru neam, \u00een care sunt trecu\u021bi to\u021bi cei care au f\u0103cut parte din familie, at\u00e2t viii, c\u00e2t \u0219i adormi\u021bii, fac s\u0103 se rezolve karma de neam pe care fiecare o mo\u0219tenim prin faptul c\u0103 ne-am n\u0103scut \u00een aceea familie.\u00a0Este bine\u00a0s\u0103 se \u0219tie \u0219i s\u0103 se treac\u0103\u00a0numele str\u0103buniciilor sau str\u0103-str\u0103bunicilor \u00een liturghii, pentru c\u0103 prin citirea lor de c\u0103tre preot se \u0219terg p\u0103catele p\u00e2n\u0103 la al \u0219aptelea neam.\u00a0Noi mo\u0219tenim aceste p\u0103cate\u00a0de la str\u0103mo\u0219ii no\u0219tri \u0219i ajungem s\u0103 le manifest\u0103m fizic \u0219i spiritual.\u201d<\/b><\/em><\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n
Or, atunci c\u00e2nd liturghia este slujit\u0103 de c\u0103tre un preot cu har, Divinitatea coboar\u0103 \u00een biseric\u0103. Duhul Sf\u00e2nt se coboar\u0103 asupra noastr\u0103, m\u0103rindu-ne vibra\u021bia \u0219i cur\u0103\u021bindu-ne energetic.<\/b><\/div>\n

Lan\u021bul sl\u0103biciunilor<\/strong><\/h4>\n
Al\u021bi autori apleca\u021bi asupra rela\u021biei energetice dintre membrii uneia \u0219i aceleia\u0219i familii propun alt\u0103 solu\u021bie: autosalvgardarea. Dar descriu \u00een aceia\u0219i termeni \u201dmecanismul\u201d karmei de neam: \u00een momentul na\u0219terii, absorbim energiile p\u0103rin\u021bilor no\u0219tri cu at\u00e2ta for\u021b\u0103, \u00eenc\u00e2t nu mai distingem linia care separ\u0103 identitatea noastr\u0103 de a lor. Pur \u0219i simplu nu mai \u0219tim unde \u00eencepem s\u0103 fim NOI \u0219i \u00eenceteaz\u0103 a mai fi EI. Pentru c\u0103 am absorbit \u0219i iluziile, \u0219i fricile lor, am intrat \u00een contact cu toat\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103rc\u0103tura lor emo\u021bional\u0103. Pe care au preluat-o, la r\u00e2ndul lor, din genera\u021bie \u00een genera\u021bie: aceea\u0219i schem\u0103 se repet\u0103 la infinit, fie c\u0103 este vorba despre un tipar aplicat rela\u021biei dintre masculin \u0219i feminin, sau dintre dominant \u0219i dominat, sau chiar un tipar ce prefigureaz\u0103 \u0219i predestineaz\u0103 anumite probleme de s\u0103n\u0103tate.<\/b><\/div>\n
Acest tip de \u00eenc\u0103rc\u0103tur\u0103 karmic\u0103 se rezolv\u0103 c\u00e2nd energia blocat\u0103 \u00een noi \u00een\u0219ine se elibereaz\u0103, irumpe \u0219i nu se mai transmite genera\u021biei urm\u0103toare. Chiar a\u0219a: este suficient ca un singur membru al familiei s\u0103 se elibereze de leg\u0103tura emo\u021bional\u0103 absorbit\u0103 \u00een copil\u0103rie \u2013 sau prezent\u0103, foarte probabil, chiar \u00een genele sale -, pentru a suspenda karma familial\u0103.<\/b><\/div>\n

Ajut\u0103-te singur<\/strong><\/h4>\n
Vestea bun\u0103 este c\u0103 oricine poate rupe cercul vicios. Cum? Simplu (sau nu tocmai, de la caz la caz): ajut\u00e2ndu-se singur. Focaliz\u00e2ndu-se asupra dezvolt\u0103rii sale interioare. Ceea ce ar \u00eensemna s\u0103 ne ocup\u0103m de propriul nostru drum. S\u0103 nu mai \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 ne pliem pe a\u0219tept\u0103rile celorlal\u021bi \u2013 p\u0103rin\u021bi, buni \u0219i str\u0103buni etc. -, nici s\u0103 \u00eei aducem la acela\u0219i numitor comun cu noi. S\u0103 d\u0103m drumul leg\u0103turii intruzive, invazive dintre ei \u0219i noi, noi \u0219i ei. Aceasta ne este misiunea: s\u0103 descoperim \u0219i s\u0103 cultiv\u0103m spa\u021biul energetic-emo\u021bional dintre noi \u0219i ei. Dac\u0103 ei sunt \u00een via\u021b\u0103, vom sim\u021bi, \u0219i ei, \u0219i noi, cum rela\u021biile noastre se destind. Inexplicabil? Ba deloc: energiile ata\u0219ate repro\u0219urilor \u0219i culpabilit\u0103\u021bii vor fi p\u0103r\u0103sit scena. Una peste alta, ne vom sim\u021bi mai liberi \u00een rela\u021bia cu ei, ne vom trasa \u0219i urma propria cale, f\u0103r\u0103 a mai sim\u021bi nevoia s\u0103 ob\u021binem aprobarea lor pentru fiecare pas sau, din contr\u0103, s\u0103 ne revolt\u0103m dac\u0103 nu sunt de acord cu noi.<\/b><\/div>\n
Odat\u0103 pornit, bulg\u0103rele se rostogole\u0219te \u0219i nu mai poate fi oprit: energia noastr\u0103 se transmite celorlalte persoane din familie, deschiz\u00e2ndu-le propria cale spre libertate. Le-am ar\u0103tat c\u0103 se poate. Ce vor face mai departe \u2013 urmeaz\u0103 ori nu calea schimb\u0103rii -, nu mai este r\u0103spunderea noastr\u0103. Sunt pe cont propriu. A\u0219a cum am fost \u0219i noi, c\u00e2nd am trasat pista.<\/b><\/div>\n

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Karma de neam \u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0 S\u00e2ngele ap\u0103 nu se face: o zical\u0103 cu dus \u0219i \u00eentors. Cu o accep\u021bie pozitiv\u0103 \u2013 \u021bes\u0103tura solid\u0103 de sentimente \u0219i con\u0219tiin\u021b\u0103 care \u021bine la […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-243","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/reiki-cluj-terapii.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/243","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/reiki-cluj-terapii.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/reiki-cluj-terapii.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reiki-cluj-terapii.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reiki-cluj-terapii.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=243"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/reiki-cluj-terapii.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/243\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":251,"href":"https:\/\/reiki-cluj-terapii.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/243\/revisions\/251"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/reiki-cluj-terapii.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=243"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reiki-cluj-terapii.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=243"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reiki-cluj-terapii.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=243"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}